The Truth about Phoren
Here are my initial thoughts about being in a foreign country. I can't say that it would be the same for all countries outside India, but hear me out.
Two things I would like to talk about - Living and Working.
Life.
I've been living in Switzerland now for a while. I guess everyone says that it's the best country in the world to live. I'm not so sure.
One of the senior guys I met here put it very nicely. He said - "Here in Switzerland I have everything I had ever wanted, cars, money, nice house. But the best time of my life would still be the time I spent in India. There I got my clothes washed, my food cooked, my house cleaned for me...and that for me is true luxury."
And this is not an isolated viewpoint.
You get paid a lot more than you do in India, but here everyone else is also being paid as much as you are, maybe more. You can afford a lot of things and gadgets, but you wont be able to afford a maid.
As for things to do when you want to pass time, its too cold for there to be many things. Let me elaborate.
Switzerland is a cold country, the temp goes to 0°C routinely in the evenings for more than half the year. And the culture here has developed around that fact. All the shops close at 630 in the evening. Almost nobody is out on the streets in the evening, and people prefer to be in bars or clubs in the night. In India, its much better, with people almost out every night for window shopping and movies.
Someone had also said: "In Delhi we always had things happening and there was always stuff to do. Here you just feel lazy after coming back from work, and sit at home and watch TV."
Life in India is much more happening than the life here. Surprising.
There are adventure sports in summer. All for a price though.
Work.
The Work that an Indian would get in Europe or America is much better than the work he would do in India.
One reason could be that since Indians are good workers, the people here notice that and give us more responsible work. The natives who have just started work here, have a very easy attitute to work and I guess that shows.
Another not so significant reason could be the outsourcing business. All the work that is outsourced to India is work that is too boring or too expensive with regard to manpower. And this work is not good work. So when people say that all the real work gets done in America or Europe, they are not too much off the mark. Engineers from IIT wouldn't enjoy outsourced work, I am sure.
Well, what conclusions can I draw. Not anything concrete I'm afraid. All I can say is, and this was told to us by a respected gentleman in the IIT Alumni counselling session at IIT Delhi, "Go out for a bit, see the world, but then come back to India".
India for me is the best country in the world to live.
6 comments:
I strongly support your views regarding this issue.
Though I have never been to any country abroad.But I feel the same.
IMO, those of us who come to work in "phoren" see it as an investment... at least the first couple of years.
Think of this: you earn more and so even if you save the same %, your networth (savings -> investments etc) grows faster out here than in India. If you're of that bent, you can create a sizeable asset-portfolio much faster than an upper income individual in India would be able to.
I think the best of both worlds is the Middle East. There, you can earn like you do in a western economy (in terms of absolute buying power) and afford all that you're used to in india: dhobi, mali, and kaam-wali.
The catch, of course, is the constant dagger of "job insecurity" hanging over your head.
I agree, there are things that can be said for living abroad, and one of them is the money that you save abroad. Even if it is the same percentage as in India, it is more. But in the end, you would have to go back to India and spend the savings for them to count as more.
Its all relative I think.
I stopped for some time in Dubai, and I was amazed. Its India...without all the garbage. But you have to almost half of your salary to the Sheikhs, and I agree that there is always the "constant dagger" of insecurity.
One interesting incident I came to know about: Once and Indian along with his wife went for dinner at a Sheikh's residence. I took this with a pinch of salt, but what transpired is that the Sheikh liked the guys's wife and he kept her! Imagine that, one minute you happy that you have a wife, the next minute you are simply without her.
You seem to forget that the luxuries that you get in India, Dhone waali, Kaam waali also live in India.
What abt their lives? Will it be justified to relegate them to misarable servanthood? Its atrocious even to think that kind of thing is a perfect world. I strongly condemn this kind of thinking and lack for dignity of labour.
Definetly this kind of thinking makes the life of millions in India miserable. I love the fact that you love the homeland. but I cant help strongly rejecting this. I am hurt and dismayed by this kind of thinking.
I was always aware that someone might say the above(ref: sasikanth). My article does make it appear that we like having servants (I prefer to call them helpers).
Haan, I acknowledge, I like someone coming in the day and helping my mom clean the dishes, and help her with the cooking during the day.
I would gladly pay that person any amount she/he asks from me for that help. Specially after living in Switzerland where "Servants" (Putz Frau in german) make more money than I do.
I think we have to stop using "Servants" with a negative connotation.
fAgreed, service is the greatest charity. There isnt and should'nt be anything like a negative connotation to it. Even in religious places, the service you provide manually means much more than just giving donations. It is like giving some charity, feeling content and not really knowing how or where it is being used rather than buy the basic necessities, visit the slums and distribute it yourself.
It is just that for some well off person it may be charity, whereas for somebody else service is a source of provenance.
And you are providing them with a source of livelihood which they would otherwise have been deprived of.
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